Even though you may feel pressured to be more outgoing and extroverted,
especially during your job search, don’t despair: Introverts possess many
strengths, many of which are even admired by employers.
If you haven't already admitted
you're an introvert, you may need to recognize the characteristics of one.
Introverts prefer to think before they act. They regain energy by being alone.
They need time to formulate ideas in their heads before talking about them.
They prefer depth over breadth; this is true of relationships and information.
An introvert prefers fewer deep and meaningful relationships over hundreds of
contacts. Introverts also tend to dive deep into topics they're interested in.
Creativity, strategizing and remaining calm under pressure are several other
strengths not to overlook. Self-awareness is the first step to appreciating the
desirable qualities and overcoming those that limit your career and job search.
1. Meet people one-on-one. The thought of networking in a
big crowd is scary, repulsive, intimidating and many other less-than-positive
descriptors to an introvert. It isn't as though they can't network--they
can--they're just more comfortable meeting individuals one at a time. And because
introverts are good listeners, they come across as likable. The secret to
maximizing your listening skills is not to worry about what you will say next.
Conduct research on the person you will be meeting with and construct a list of
questions you want to ask. Feel free to write these questions down and refer to
them if you need to. Introverts sometimes become sidetracked in their own
thoughts. A list of questions will help you feel more confident.
2. You are not shy. Introverts tend to dislike small talk and
this often leads to the perception that they're shy or unfriendly. Shoot down
this misconception by developing a repertoire of questions you can use to make
small talk. When you use these questions, you won't feel the pressure of not
knowing what to say and you can move on to building rapport. This is
particularly important when you're meeting someone for the first time.
3. Share your ideas. Introverts are strong at ideation,
that is, the creative process of generating, developing and communicating new ideas.
They just need time to think. In an interview situation, you may not have as
much time to process your ideas and answers and formulate a confident response.
With a little planning, an introvert can anticipate likely scenarios he or she
can prepare for in advance. It is alright to ask for time to respond during an
interview. You may even want to explain that you need a moment to formulate
your answer before you speak.
4. Avoid back-to-back scheduling. When possible, build time
into your day to recharge. That means scheduling an interview or meeting and
allowing yourself time after the event to be alone and recharge. Be sure you
ask how much time to allocate for an interview. It will help you gauge how much
energy you will need to store up.
5. Tap into the power of your passion. Introverts can be
passionate and when given the opportunity to speak around a topic of interest,
they even exude confidence. Look and listen for opportunities to share your
interests during an interview and when networking. Better yet, plan ways to
gently steer the conversation toward these areas and ask questions.
Undoubtedly, you will have an opportunity to share your accomplishments.
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